I'm talking about one of those life changing days.
We've all had them. I know I've had my fair share of joyous, life changing days. The day I got married, the birth of my first child (and two more births), a big promotion at work...
I wish I could say Easter 2017 was like one of those days... It was life changing, but it was nothing remotely close to joyous.
I've had a few of those days in my life as well. Instant, raw emotion would say there is nothing good about these kind of days. They're just bad.
I'd argue, based upon experience, that these days can become some of the most positive and impactful days of our lives. These are the days you'd never wish on your enemy, but never give up for any amount of money.
May 8, 2009, as an example, was the worst day of my life, to that date. I lost my boy, my flesh and blood, to the State, because of a bad substance abuse problem that was affecting my ability to raise him as he deserved.
This is another story for another blog, but my point is that after years of hard work and determination, many triumphs and defeats, good days and bad days, I can honestly say that May 8, 2009 was one of the best days of my life, because it has had the largest positive impact on my family and I. Curious as to why I feel that way? Just ask, I'm happy to discuss it.
I was diagnosed with Stage 4 Colon Cancer on Easter, April 16, 2017. Like I said, it was one of those days...
There have already been some bad days since. I've had a hemicolectomy procedure and two inpatient stays at local hospitals. There will be many more bad days with chemotherapy starting in a week or so to shrink the tumors on my liver.
There have been great days as well! I've had family come up and/or call, neighbors rally to help, friends and coworkers that have offered their love and support.
Yep, one of those days...
We're still learning about all of this. I've become a citizen of "Colontown", which is a great community of Colon Cancer patients, survivors and caretakers that share their knowledge and encouragement.
Kim and I are optimistic! We'll do everything we can to beat it, and when we do, oh what a beautiful day Easter 2017 will be!!!
Even on the darkest of nights, the stars shine bright...
Stumble forward - RW
Sorry, had to throw one last picture in. Kim and I think Jamieson looks just like Chris Farley in this one:
Just one of those days has brought us closer together as a family and reminded us to appreciate how precious life and everyone around us really is. Even though you look awesome in a hospital robe, it's great to know you're back home with your family, Clint. You got this, bro! Love ya. -Rick
ReplyDeleteClint you are awesome! I am grateful that you have always been a fighter. You can beat this!
ReplyDeleteHey Clint! You're very strong and you'll beat this. You will be in my thoughts. And yes, Jamieson does look like Chris Farley!
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ReplyDeleteYou are amazing! Thanks for sharing your story with all of us. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I love ya so much man!
Love ya Brother, and will be following along!
ReplyDeleteLove ya Brother, and will be following along!
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